THE LIST One time not to long ago I made a list of what I want in a man in a lover in a friend I wrote every whim and fancy every nook and cranny telling myself I am foolish for what I described was the perfect man the perfect friend the perfect lover which did not exist Well there are debatable cliches about perfection, but most can agree it is unattainable But then I met you and you became my friend But then I got to know you as I saw you as a man But then I got to touch you and I saw you as a lover and realized that you are everything on my list every whim and fancy nook and cranny So I asked myself does that make you perfection? but then I just laughed and replied No, that just makes my goal attainableplied No, that just makes my goal attainable